Homecoming Queen.....

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After being in education for close to 30 yrs there are always kids that you have that have impacted your life.
Mariana R was one of those.She graduated this June and today was going to be her 1st day in college.
An excellent volleyball player.Beautiful both inside and outside.A caring student who smiled 24-7 for 4 yrs.
Last Oct she was nominated for homecoming queen with 6 other girls.Another girl won but I knew Mariana was the real winner.That nite I gave her the flowers as princess during the cermony.But whispered in her ear"your my homecoming queen".The other nominee's might have been prettier in most people eyes but not mine. Throughout the year it became a joke between us.
On our senior trip to Disney we actually had a mock ceremony as I crowned her queen in Magic Kingdom.
The night of the Senior Prom she came over to my table,asked my wife for permission to dance with me.We danced to a Celine Dion song and one of the photographers took a picture of us.I told Marianna 'you look stunning,the prettiest girl here tonite."
A month later at graduation night I got to pose with her mother and her in another picture.In her yearbook I wrote" ....to my homecoming queen....I'm not susposed to have favorites...but by far you are one of my all time...you care,you smile...I will always remember Orlando,the prom,etc

Yesterday morning I got a call from one of my teachers.Marianna was killed in a car crash going to work at Filenes.She was to start college today.She had a 9.00 am class.She hydroplaned on a curve and lost control and hit a pickup head on.There was no drinking or partying.Just going to work at the mall on a Sunday morning. There was a rain yest morning and the roads were a little slippery.
How an 18 yr life is taken away is beyond me sometimes.I have buried many students and of course many of my former basketball players.It happens in schools all over.But this one hits hard.
Tomr is the wake and Wed the funeral.Today we dealt with many of our students and falculty.I went over her parents house and she is the only child.Her mother embraced me and wouldn't let go of me.All she kept saying was "she was your homecoming queen".Over her bed in her room was the crown I gave her at Disney.She was a homecoming queen...These next few days will be hard for everyone.But on my desk are 2 beautiful pictures of her and me at the prom and graduation.I'll treasure those forever....

18-year-old Port grad dies in crash

By Dave Richardson
Times Herald-Record
drichardson@th-record.com

Friends and family are mourning the death of 18-year-old Marianna , killed yesterday in an accident in the Town of Deerpark.
Police said ...., who graduated from ......High School this year and lived with her family in Cuddebackville, lost control of her car about 9:15 a.m. on Route 211 near the intersection of Route 61.
.... was heading east when she failed to negotiate a curve and ended up in the westbound lane, where her car was struck by an oncoming pickup truck, police said.
... was pronounced dead at the scene, police said.
Her death sent shock waves through the community.
she was a member of .....High School's varsity volleyball team and had friends throughout the school, Principal ......said yesterday.
"She was one of the most popular girls in school," .... said. "She was one of those kids who always had a smile, was always energetic. She was the all-American girl."
...said crisis counselors would be available at the school.
She was scheduled to begin attending SUNY Orange today, ........ said.
"I know our school, our community and her family are just devastated by this," he added.
The driver of the pickup truck, John Knapp, 38, of Suffern, was not injured, but two passengers in the truck were taken to Bon Secours Hospital, where they were treated for minor injuries and released, police said.
State police investigating the accident said wet and slippery conditions on the road contributed to the accident. Other police sources said .......was wearing a seat belt.
No citations were issued.
 

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wow.....sorry to hear the news. one of your stories that didn't end up with a happy ending. so sorry.

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Box...very very sad. My thoughts are with you and her family.
 

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Sorry for the loss, Box. I'll be thinking about you over the next few days.
 

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All the best Box -- you really seem to make a difference with your students, best wishes during this hard time.
 

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Box, You can look back and know that you had a wonderful impact on her much too short life and that she treasured knowing you. I am very sorry for your loss.
 

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Hey Box...

Well, that is the most dreadful thing that can happen to a parent or a teacher..People must understand that so many of our students become just like part of the family.... I have been in your shoes and it is devastating... Along the same line ...We just lost a young father of 2 this week who was the most popular young man in 2 towns.....Literally more than a thousand showed for his wake.....Church volunteer, community volunteer, PTA pres,policeman, so down to earth...made everyone feel good and smile always...He left 2 young children as he lost his battle with depression..If he only knew how much he was loved by all ??????
Box, I feel for you...thats a real tough way to start a new year.................
I went out in June after 37 total years (man am I getting old...58) but am still going in for a week to open a class for a teacher who just had surgery...It'll be good to see everyone as it always is in Sept. Have a great year!

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Box-

As a former teacher I know too close the pain you are going through. There are relationships built with students by teachers that are second only to family, and sometimes they feel like family.

My proudest and most honored possession outside of my family is the end of year books and notes I received from all of my former students as well as their ongoing e-mails. We both know educators do not get paid nearly enough monetarily, but we enjoy payment of a different kind that is beyond words. It makes these tragedies that much more painful!

My prayers are with you as it is a terrible way to start your year, as well as for her family and friends.

God speed, and thanks for all the lives you have touched! It means a lot to the kids, and to the parents!


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I was a middle school and elem priincipal for 35 yrs before I retired a year ago--I understand-there are thsoe special kids--my prayers are with you
 
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