6-year old found in charge of six other children in New Orleans

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A child in charge of `6 babies' By Ellen Barry Tribune Newspapers: Los Angeles Times
Tue Sep 6, 9:40 AM ET

In the chaos that was Causeway Boulevard, this group of refugees stood out: a 6-year-old boy walking down the road, holding a 5-month-old, surrounded by five toddlers who followed him around as if he were their leader.

They were holding hands. Three of the children were about 2, and one was wearing only diapers. A 3-year-old girl, who wore colorful barrettes on the ends of her braids, had her 14-month-old brother in tow. The 6-year-old spoke for all of them, and he told rescuers his name was Deamonte Love.

Thousands of human stories have flown past relief workers in the last week, but few have touched them as much as the seven children who were found wandering together Thursday at an evacuation point in downtown New Orleans.

In the Baton Rouge headquarters of the rescue operation, paramedics tried to coax their names out of them; nurses who examined them stayed up that night, brooding.

Transporting the children alone was "the hardest thing I've ever done in my life, knowing that their parents are either dead" or that they had been abandoned, said Pat Coveney, a Houston emergency medical technician who put them into the back of his ambulance and drove them out of New Orleans.

"It goes back to the same thing," he said. "How did a 6-year-old end up being in charge of six babies?"

Children reported missing

So far, parents displaced by flooding have reported 220 children missing, but that number is expected to rise, said Mike Kenner of the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children, which will help reunite families.

"When my kids were little I used to lose them in Target, so it's not hard for me to believe," said Nanette White, press secretary for the Louisiana Department of Social Services. "Sometimes little kids just wander off. They're there one second and you blink and they're gone."

At the rescue headquarters, Deamonte volunteered his vital statistics. He said his father was tall and his mother was short. He gave his address, his phone number and the name of his elementary school.

He said the 5-month-old was his brother, Darynael, and that two others were his cousins, Tyreek and Zoria. The other three lived in his apartment building.

The children were clean and healthy--downright plump in the case of the infant, said Joyce Miller, a nurse who examined them. It was clear, she said, that "time had been taken with those kids."

All evening Thursday, volunteer Ron Haynes carried one of the 2-year-old girls back and forth, playing with her until she was calm enough to eat dinner.

"This baby child was terrified," he said. "After she relaxed, it was gobble, gobble, gobble."

Late the same night, they got an encouraging report: A woman in a shelter in Thibodaux, about 45 miles west of New Orleans, was searching for seven children. People in the building started clapping at the news. But when they got the mother on the phone, it became clear that she was looking for a different group, said Sharon Howard, assistant secretary of the office of public health.

"What that made me understand was that this was happening across the state," she said. "That kind of frightened me."

The children were transferred to a shelter operated by the Department of Social Services, with rooms full of toys and cribs where mentors from the Big Buddy Program were on hand day and night. For the next two days, the staff did detective work.

One of the 2-year-olds steadfastly refused to say her name until a worker took her picture with a digital camera and showed it to her. The little girl pointed at it and cried out, "Gabby!" One of the boys had a G printed on his T-shirt when he arrived; when volunteers started calling him G, they noticed that he responded.

Deamonte began to give more details to Derrick Robertson, a 27-year-old Big Buddy mentor: How he saw his mother cry when he was loaded onto the helicopter. How he promised her he would take care of his little brother.

Late Saturday, they found Deamonte's mother, who was in a shelter in San Antonio along with the four mothers of the other five children. Catrina Williams, 26, saw her children's pictures on a Web site set up over the weekend by the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children. By Sunday, a private plane from Angel Flight waited to take the children to Texas.

In a phone interview, Williams said she is the kind of mother who doesn't let her children out of her sight. What happened, she said, was that her family, trapped in a New Orleans apartment building, began to feel desperate.

Wrenching moment

The water wasn't going down, and they had been living without light, food or air conditioning for four days. The baby needed milk and the milk was gone. So she decided they would evacuate by helicopter. When a helicopter arrived, they were told to send the children first and that the helicopter would be back in 25 minutes.

It was a wrenching moment. Williams' father, Adrian Love, told her to send the children ahead.

"I told them to go ahead and give them up, because me, I would give my life for my kids. They should feel the same way," said Love, 48.

The helicopter didn't come back.

While the children were transported to Baton Rouge, their parents wound up in Texas. Days passed without contact. On Sunday, Williams was elated.

"All I know is I just want to see my kids," she said. "Everything else will just fall into place."

At 3 p.m. Sunday, social workers said goodbye to the children who now had names: Deamonte Love; Darynael Love; Zoria Love and her brother Tyreek. The girl who cried "Gabby!" was Gabrielle Janae Alexander. The girl they called Peanut was Degahney Carter. And the boy whom they called G was actually Lee--Leewood Moore Jr.

The children were strapped into car seats and driven to an airport for the flight to San Antonio to rejoin their parents. Deamonte was hanging on to Robertson's neck so desperately that Robertson decided, at the last minute, to ride with him as far as Lafayette.

Robertson said he doubted the children would remember much of the evacuation, or the smell of the flooded city.

"I think what's going to stick with them is that they survived Hurricane Katrina," he said. "And that they were loved."
 

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dude should be a national hero-you have to love stories like this one, props to the young man,,,,,
 

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i'm not getting this story at all.... were the kids wandering in Baton Rouge, or in NO?? if they were taken by helicopter first, why would they still be in NO?? i can understand the separation from parents part, but shouldn't they have all been separated to safe places??

in any case, i wonder if this 6 yr. old is available doe hire ro a nanny job ;)

what an amazing story of a little one taking such great care of those even smaller than he!!!
 

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i'm not getting this story at all.... were the kids wandering in Baton Rouge, or in NO?? !!!


and I thought it was me :mj07:
 

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I guess the helicopter picked them up, and then dumped them unsupervised at an evacuation point in New Orleans? I think what it's saying is they were then found wandering outside wherever they were dropped in New Orleans, and then transferred to a shelter in Baton Rouge.
 

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ahhhhhhh...thanks GM. Now it makes sense and even sounds like something LOGICAL (other than the fact of leaving them unsupervised) from this more than SNAFU overall. or should that be SUnAFU....

still....MAJOR props to this 6 yr. old for looking after so many little ones!!! but great to know the parents have now been found to help him out
 

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There are sad story after sad story to be told after this one..some of these 6 year olds ALWAYS fend for themselves as mom is just not there.

To see this kid taking care of YOUNGER kids is not something odd for these projects.

The field my son uses for soccer practice has a gym next to it which is being used for evacuees as well.

Yesterday at practice, one lil kid maybe 4 years old or so, came sit by us and wanted to play, so some of the parents went grab a soccer ball and kicked it with him and watched him THE ENTIRE PRACTICE..from 6 to 8 PM. When practice was over, one of the fathers went into the gym to see who was mising a child, AFTER ABOUT 5 minutes, a girl 15 y/o or so...came out yelling at the kid cuz, "YO MOMMA IS GONE BE MAD AT U"...

2 hours at a shelter of 100 or so folks, and you dont notice that your 4 year old is missin ????

SAD, but needless to say, the kid didnt want to go back to the shelter as he was parented more in the 2 hours he got to run around with us then he probably EVER was or ever will be when the project is re-built and they are shipped back somewhere.

You gotta take the test to drive a car, and for most jobs out there, but unfortunately it's easy to have kids, and some of the "parents" just dont give a shit....and these poor kids suffer and grow up with the helplessness that turns into the anger against society, and before you know it, it's SERIAL KILLER time again..

So make sure you hug your kids everyday, and let em know that if nothing else, you are there !!!

I finally saw just how important that is , and not just come cliche'....
 

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Schouest said:
There are sad story after sad story to be told after this one..some of these 6 year olds ALWAYS fend for themselves as mom is just not there.

To see this kid taking care of YOUNGER kids is not something odd for these projects.

The field my son uses for soccer practice has a gym next to it which is being used for evacuees as well.

Yesterday at practice, one lil kid maybe 4 years old or so, came sit by us and wanted to play, so some of the parents went grab a soccer ball and kicked it with him and watched him THE ENTIRE PRACTICE..from 6 to 8 PM. When practice was over, one of the fathers went into the gym to see who was mising a child, AFTER ABOUT 5 minutes, a girl 15 y/o or so...came out yelling at the kid cuz, "YO MOMMA IS GONE BE MAD AT U"...

2 hours at a shelter of 100 or so folks, and you dont notice that your 4 year old is missin ????

SAD, but needless to say, the kid didnt want to go back to the shelter as he was parented more in the 2 hours he got to run around with us then he probably EVER was or ever will be when the project is re-built and they are shipped back somewhere.

You gotta take the test to drive a car, and for most jobs out there, but unfortunately it's easy to have kids, and some of the "parents" just dont give a shit....and these poor kids suffer and grow up with the helplessness that turns into the anger against society, and before you know it, it's SERIAL KILLER time again..

So make sure you hug your kids everyday, and let em know that if nothing else, you are there !!!

I finally saw just how important that is , and not just come cliche'....




Awesome post....
 

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"When my kids were little I used to lose them in Target, so it's not hard for me to believe," said Nanette White, press secretary for the Louisiana Department of Social Services. "Sometimes little kids just wander off. They're there one second and you blink and they're gone."

I don't know if this is the person I would have as my press secretary. I mean, it's an innocent thing to momentarily lose your kid in Target but as the PS for the LA Dept of Social Services DON'T TALK ABOUT IT TO THE PRESS!
 
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