Senor,
Is there a reason behind using Monk's picture as your avatar?  I am just curious.  I thought it seemed kind of strange or somewhat obsessive, actually.  But you may have it there as a joke or something, hence the caption "fellatio monk".  If  that is the case, I was under the impression that you were buying into the notion of letting bygones be bygones?  Am I mistaken?  I find it in poor taste.