I don't know what to do

fatdaddycool

fatdaddycool

Chi-TownHustler
Forum Member
Mar 26, 2001
13,688
257
83
60
Fort Worth TX usa
My Mom, who for anyone that knows me knows how close her and I are, is really sick and in the hospital in Chicago.

To make things worse, I find out the person closest to me in the world, my daughter, has been lying to me for years.

This might be the saddest and most lost I have ever been and I just don't know what to do. I have nobody. No family no nothing other than my Mom and daughter and I have can't even make a complete sentence I am so upset,

While I would never consider something stupid or immature, those of you that know me, imagine me being inconsolably sad and lost. That is me. This sucks
 
  • Like
Reactions: krc and PocketAces
D

dunclock

Registered User
Forum Member
Dec 22, 2001
11,899
125
63
64
Nashville, TN
take care of your mom ... worry about your daughter later

praying and wishing you the best my friend :0074
 
L

LuvThemDogs

Registered User
Forum Member
Dec 2, 2005
1,308
40
48
I don't have kids, but I know the majority of kids will let their parents down at some point in time. I let my parents down several times and it really wasn't anything major. Try to be understanding and realize, this just happens. .We've gotten through it.Time will heal the wound from your daughter. Whatever it is she lied to you about. I would think now is the time to really open up to her, and don't push her away, as tempting as it might be.

As far as your mom goes, sounds like going to Chicago and be there for her might make you and her feel a whole lot better. Sounds like she is really important to you in your life.

Sorry you're sad mate. Call a buddy and shoot the shit. Friends have a way of making things better. I'm sure you have many who care a lot about you.

I realize I don't know you from adam, but hopefully a little time and space is what you need.
 
H

hedgehog

Registered
Forum Member
Oct 30, 2003
32,628
571
113
49
TX
I wish you the best FDC I would get to Chicago if it was me and sort your situation out with your daughter later your mom needs you, best of luck hope it all works out for you
 
Wineguy

Wineguy

Registered User
Forum Member
Feb 7, 2000
6,915
232
63
Atlanta, GA
Go see your Mom today. You fly free, make that part happen, and your daughter will be there when you get it back together. Good luck bud.
 
MadJack

MadJack

Administrator
Staff member
Forum Admin
Super Moderators
Channel Owner
Jul 13, 1999
104,477
1,190
113
69
home
Sorry to hear, bro.
 
R

rrc

Registered User
Forum Member
Feb 26, 2001
2,503
13
0
Just had my mom in from California and we spent five days here in Chicago with her and a lot of old relatives and friends.

Some of the friends she has known over 75 years!!

Go be with your mother, everything else is irrelevant at this point.

Best wishes during this tough time.
 
R

ripken8

yankee hater
Forum Member
Jul 1, 2004
4,040
59
48
66
NY
get to your Mom Cris, that is your priority for now. hopefully the rest will work itself out. but for now your focus should be entirely with her. thoughts and prayers are with you...
 
Jaxx

Jaxx

Go Pokes!
Forum Member
Jan 5, 2003
7,084
88
48
FL
I have many sleepless nights over my daughter. I have come to the conclusion all you can do is love, help and give solid advice. You cant live their life.
Sorry to hear about your Mom. Hope she gets better.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Bet on MyBookie
Top