sorry to hear that Raymond.....must be a very tough time.....especially to see the woman you once loved and still probably do depart......hang in there buddy!
Thx guys. It has really gotten bad as late. Reality is setting in as she is finally moving out after we finally realized that we cannot live together. It is hard when your mate looks you in the eye and tells you that she does not love you anymore, writing was pretty much on the wall when she started coming home at 4 in the morning and we sleep in different beds; I can live without her, it is the custody issue of my son that really makes this one tough. My marriage was pretty much over about a year ago when I was still in the Marines and I went on deployment. (That can really ruin a relationship) I did not see her or my son for about 9 months. She really changed a lot when I got back. Her priorities have really changed and now that I live in her neck of the woods she has the big support system and I have zilch except my son. But we must all push on. I am sure there are many of you out there with much bigger crosses to bear so I will not ask for egg in my beer. (At least I can come meet you all next year at the Superbowl party and whoop it up now