What to do

[vinnyhockey]

Well Madjackers it has been a very long time since I logged into the site to make a comment. It has been over two years. Went through a bit of a tough time of loosing my job having to move to another Province in Canada and then having to go through a very messy divorce. Glad to see the Doctor is still around you posts got me through the tough days! Thanks man!

On to the topic at hand. My ex received this letter in the mail (no signed of course) saying that I was now out sleeping with women and that they now see the real me. It was jammed with all kinds of false things that where very hurtful. I went and got the letter from her and am going to turn it over to the police. I have some friends there that can have it dusted for me. My question is do you think I should just let this go or try to find out who the f**** is spreading this shit. I have had enough of the shadow boxing in the last year of my marriage to do me a life time!

Any help would be appreciated!
:nono:

 

[SixFive]

If the police pursue that I would really be suprised. I couldn't get the police to do anything at all for me but write a report when I had my car broken into and the idiots used my cell phone, lol. They wouldn't even try to track the number. Sorry you've have a couple of rough years and welcome back.

 

[BahamaMama]

Welcome back VH .... what exactly does it matter to your ex-wife who you are sleeping with? is there some sort of child visitation or custody situation involved? if not, i don't think i'd care what she knew if i were you....LOL

 

[vinnyhockey]

Thanks BahamaMama,

Yes there is three children involved and I will do anything to protect them. I love my children! I worked in a political position and saw this crap far to often!

 

[MadJack]

let it slide. if it isn't true there's nothing to be defensive about. you can tell her what a piece of shit she is for spreading falsehoods but don't be defensive about it with anybody, just laugh it off.

 

[IntenseOperator]

let it slide. if it isn't true there's nothing to be defensive about. you can tell her what a piece of shit she is for spreading falsehoods but don't be defensive about it with anybody, just laugh it off.

:iagree:

if you fight, you are giving it life

 

[Old School]

In silence man can most readily preserve his integrity.

Meister Eckhart


Only the hand that erases can write the true thing.

Meister Eckhart


best of luck...

 

[BADTODABONE]

...move on and don't look back....tough....time heals all wounds they say...don't look back, move forward...gl

 

[vinnyhockey]

Thanks guys!

Will take your advice. Itchas been one hard road. One word of advice to all. When you get married make sure you tuck away some cash that no one knows about as I have learned the process of seperation of assets never works for you. Glad to have all that done!

Vinny

 

[Toma]

when you kick a skunk all you succeed in doing is getting your foot stunk up!
let the lie remain just that. as IO says "Don't give it life".

 

[The Judge]

My ex received this letter in the mail (no signed of course) saying that I was now out sleeping with women .

I must be missing something here. Were you previously sleeping with men? :shrug:

 

[vinnyhockey]

No,

i have just recently divorced and threre was implications that I was no out sleeping with a number of WOMEN!