Since Madjacks is like a family to me I hope you dont mind me sharing a sad story than has happened to me..........
On sunday evening I was called at work to tell me that the paramedics were at my moms house.......seems my mother(68 yrs old) had fallen to the ground and lost consciousness.......her boyfriend who lives with her went to her imediately and noticed she had no pulse......he called 911 and they arrived and began to give her mouth to mouth recessatation.....they got her heart going again but she must have went to long without oxygen to the brain as she never woke up..........she died in me and my twin sisters arms today........I am very very sad at the moment.
I try to think of the good things like she had lung cancer 4 yrs ago and was able to beat it. So I was luckly to have had the last 4 yrs with her. I think she knew I loved her very much even though I never got a chance to say goodbye to her. I never really thought about it till now but she is the first true person close to me that has died. I am very fortunate in this regard being I am 43 yrs old. I have had uncles and cousins die and my real father died when I was very young so basically she is the first really close person I have lost. She was always worried about suffering a long and painful death so at least she went very fast without any pain at all. My mom always said when you times up your times up.
I guess what the doctors said was that she went to long without getting oxygen to the brain and had she had woken up she would have had no brain function so in a way it was a good thing god took her. It would have killed me had my mom not been able to speak or understand anything.
Sorry to share something so sad but if you have any words I sure need them now.
I guess time is the only healer that I have.
Thanks for listening..........
On sunday evening I was called at work to tell me that the paramedics were at my moms house.......seems my mother(68 yrs old) had fallen to the ground and lost consciousness.......her boyfriend who lives with her went to her imediately and noticed she had no pulse......he called 911 and they arrived and began to give her mouth to mouth recessatation.....they got her heart going again but she must have went to long without oxygen to the brain as she never woke up..........she died in me and my twin sisters arms today........I am very very sad at the moment.
I try to think of the good things like she had lung cancer 4 yrs ago and was able to beat it. So I was luckly to have had the last 4 yrs with her. I think she knew I loved her very much even though I never got a chance to say goodbye to her. I never really thought about it till now but she is the first true person close to me that has died. I am very fortunate in this regard being I am 43 yrs old. I have had uncles and cousins die and my real father died when I was very young so basically she is the first really close person I have lost. She was always worried about suffering a long and painful death so at least she went very fast without any pain at all. My mom always said when you times up your times up.
I guess what the doctors said was that she went to long without getting oxygen to the brain and had she had woken up she would have had no brain function so in a way it was a good thing god took her. It would have killed me had my mom not been able to speak or understand anything.
Sorry to share something so sad but if you have any words I sure need them now.
I guess time is the only healer that I have.
Thanks for listening..........
