Mama, Don't know about all Hazeldens, but the one in Minnesota won't accept anyone unless they want to me there. No one can be sent there by a court order or whatever. Agree, the desire to be rehabilitated has to come from within. Alot of the others are just "lock-ups" for a period of time and then you are let out. Hazelden is open for you to leave at anytime so a desire to be there has to come from within. I know of someone here in Minnesota that has also been to Hazelden twice and they would not accept her the 3rd time. Just passing on some info if someone has the desire to go forward with their lives.