Red headed step child

[BuckwheatJWN]

They may all be wrong, but I seriously doubt that you can find a book on step father/ step child relationship which tell you to criticize the biological parent. Nor will you find a child psychologist who thinks you should, even if you are right. But like I said they may ALL BE WRONG.
Personally, it's your stepkid and you can say whatever you want to him and suffer or benefit from the consequences. :0008

 

[gardenweasel]

how`s about the austrian steroid monkey carrying on the grand kennedy tradition of treating their women like shite?....

hasta la vista,baby !....:sadwave:

 

[VaNurse]

You asked about your fathering so I'll interject with a woman's opinion. You seem to be a scorekeeper with this kid. "I'm the cool dad who spends beaucoup money on 2nd hand gear for you but your dad's a pussy." Basically, if you have to tell him how great you are, maybe you're not.

He can't help who fathered him but he doesn't have to suck up to you because you're boinking his mother. Why did you feel the need to put his biological father down? Did it make you feel better? I'm speculating it make you feel like shit when it didn't work out by him not telling you how great you are, so you came here to ask our opinions. The opinions you got weren't what you were expecting so where will you go now?

Aren't you the same fellow who went ballistic because the kid played with his cellphone while the family was watching a movie? The one who called the child a pansy or something equally derogatory? If I'm wrong excuse me, if I'm right maybe you should take a long look in the mirror and ask yourself why do you really hate the kid. Does he look like his dad? Do you feel threatened by him?

Give it a rest, Betone. He'll probably be better off by your being a hardworking stepfather who doesn't try to blow smoke up his ass by buying him off.

By the way, why do you attack someone's job and personal financial worth when they don't agree with you? Just curious.

 

[UGA12]

You asked about your fathering so I'll interject with a woman's opinion. You seem to be a scorekeeper with this kid. "I'm the cool dad who spends beaucoup money on 2nd hand gear for you but your dad's a pussy." Basically, if you have to tell him how great you are, maybe you're not.

He can't help who fathered him but he doesn't have to suck up to you because you're boinking his mother. Why did you feel the need to put his biological father down? Did it make you feel better? I'm speculating it make you feel like shit when it didn't work out by him not telling you how great you are, so you came here to ask our opinions. The opinions you got weren't what you were expecting so where will you go now?

Aren't you the same fellow who went ballistic because the kid played with his cellphone while the family was watching a movie? The one who called the child a pansy or something equally derogatory? If I'm wrong excuse me, if I'm right maybe you should take a long look in the mirror and ask yourself why do you really hate the kid. Does he look like his dad? Do you feel threatened by him?

Give it a rest, Betone. He'll probably be better off by your being a hardworking stepfather who doesn't try to blow smoke up his ass by buying him off.

By the way, why do you attack someone's job and personal financial worth when they don't agree with you? Just curious.

Not that it matters given the situation, but wrong guy.

 

[Cie]

I realize that parenting isn't easy, and I have no clue about step-parenting, but can only assume it can be even more difficult. I will refrain from judging you on the forum, even though you asked for us to judge you as a step-father in the original post. I will, however, give you one piece of advice. Going forward, you should refrain from referring to his bioloigical father as any sexual organ despite your true feelings on the matter.


BTW, at first glance, I like Woody's idea about raping the ingrate or stabbing his penis, but I will sleep on it before recommending either as a possible course of action.

 

[gardenweasel]

how`s about the austrian steroid monkey carrying on the grand kennedy tradition of treating their women like shite?....

hasta la vista,baby !....:sadwave:

10 freaking years this woman worked for the terminator and shriver....you have to wonder how many times maria and the help had quiet moments....

certainly maria met the child(or they at least shared photos) while the 10,000 pound elephant hung in the room...she had to think,"those eyes? that forehead? those...pecs?".....

truth is stranger than fiction....:shrug:

 

[VaNurse]

Not that it matters given the situation, but wrong guy.

Thanks for correction, the rant just seemed similar.

 

[gardenweasel]

i wasn`t sure whether the terminator`s faux pas deserved it`s own thread....so i stuck it in the "dysfunctionals family" thread.....

 

[Cie]

i wasn`t sure whether the terminator`s faux pas deserved it`s own thread....so i stuck it in the "dysfunctionals family" thread.....

Makes sense to me....I must confess:0074

 

[The Joker]

opcorn2

You called this one, big guy.

 

[Cie]

I am laughing at you, not with you, as you are my confirmation that you are a douche bag, for a whore. and truth be known, you are probably on gov asst living, or something else that I afford your scum sucking living on............. Bet you make less than 20k a year, and obama gives you a lap top:mj07: :mj07: :mj07: :mj07:

I missed this embarassment of a post :facepalm:

 

[The Joker]

Going forward, you should refrain from referring to his bioloigical father as any sexual organ despite your true feelings on the matter.


BTW, at first glance, I like Woody's idea about raping the ingrate or stabbing his penis, but I will sleep on it before recommending either as a possible course of action.

 

[gardenweasel]

Makes sense to me....I must confess:0074

cie....you think it`s too late for maria to get "ah-nulled"?...


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[BobbyBlueChip]

....so i stuck it in the "dysfunctionals family" thread.....

Jennifer Aniston's dog died. Poor girl.

 

[Sportsaholic]

Someone's not gonna like rereading this one in the morning..........:0003

 

[yyz]

Don't forget how the holiday went:

My day was so screwed up, my step daughter shows up at 15 yrs old and says as I am watching golf these guys are gay, people that play golf are gay, so I am thinking this is about me:shrug:
Then she insist that her mom warm up left over shrimp an hour before my crown of pork is done and as I thought just played with the dinner:shrug:
Then she goes home. I am thinking this is over and her 13 yr old brother is watching a movie with me. His dad had me arrested last year for communicative harassment, cause I sent him an email telling him what a piece of shit he is. The case gets thrown out. Then the kid asked me if I have ever been arrested:shrug:
I know that this is bullshit and I am being fucked with once again and then tell the kid you know I have been arrested due to your father whom had a failed charge against me. What the fuck do I do now? If that were my child I would have beat his ass, and I have taught him golf spent hundreds of dollars to have him the best and now I am being shit on:shrug:
What should I do?

 

[MadJack]

cie....you think it`s too late for maria to get "ah-nulled"?...


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:0003

 

[Woodson]

I hope he knew my post was laced w sarcasm...

Shuffle and deal its Wednesday.

 

[Betone]

Don't forget how the holiday went:

BINGO..............Was my original post,,,,,,,I made the statement on Easter after I had been drug through the mud with him and his sister alll day and he still is talking down to his mom and me and I am supposed to sit here and eat crow,,,,, I made the comment back on Easter and some of you in here want to kick my ass over that? Where have you been:shrug: I made the statement once.

 

[Betone]

Someone's not gonna like rereading this one in the morning..........:0003

Just proves that people are quick to jump on a Step father when he has given his time and has to sit with his mouth shut as the kid tells his mom to shut up all the time because I am not his "real" father. He is under my roof and I have tried and all I do is get shit on. If there is someone here that is a step father who would like to give me advice? I would listen to that.........not the other bullshit that a chosen few here that have never walked a mile in my shoes. Some of my favorite things that his "real" father allows:
Farting, and burping at a public restaurant.
Calling his mother names.
telling adults to shut up.
Eating his food in a restaurant like a dog, with no hands.
laying down under the table at a restaurant.
kicking our dog, it is just an animal.
I could go on and on..............I have "tried" to help his mom correct, so ........I guess I suck at being a step father.