Thanks for posting, I'll keep some of these in mind, and post what else I come up with. A few issues, considering my wife in particular: She does not like chocolate, jewelry, and thinks flowers are a waste of money. (NOW, do you guys know why I married her?!?). Jack, I like the "something of the month idea", will check that site out. Also thinking about the B&B idea. Last two years I've spent too much, first was a nice Bose home audio unit, and last year was the really nice camera with all the accents and zoom lenses. We're trying to cut back this year due to my college expenses and not working as much, so anything unique is still appreciated - and would probably help others out, too.
One cool thing, I found a very inexpensive, really nice frame thing which I'm going to get some nice family pictures duotoned, and put in the frame for her. That should be nice. Also going to make up a personal coupon book, with some coupons of stuff I don't like to do, but she does, so that will be a good gift. She's a big scrapbooker, so I'll stay away from that idea.