I was stationed briefly in Pearl Harbor....every sundown they would lower the standard and have a live playing of taps....it never failed to bring me a silent moment of reflection, and sometimes a tear or 2...
Now Pearl Harbor, THAT is a place for the National Anthem and quiet respect.
But I don't see Sunday morning at an $NFL game, on $FOX TV, at Levi's $tadium to be a reverent place. It's a violent sport played for money and the casual enjoyment of spectators. There is no sacrifice or respect or silence expected at a football game.
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My friend articulated this issue well on his Facebook page: He is a super liberal guy, and I am sure that would be a turnoff to many readers, but the post is fairly apolitical:
""Frankly, I've been waiting for years for someone in a position like Kaepernick's to say what he said. I go to baseball games, and I've listened to hundreds of national anthems (including 2014 when I somehow managed to hear the Canadian national anthem sung on the 4th of July) and I've felt deeply conflicted about each one.
What I don't like is, it's a patriotism test. You see the same bullshit in politics. Does Ted Cruz love America more because he puts his hand inside his jacket, closer to his heart, when he hears the anthem? Is Simone Biles less American because she stands perfectly respectfully during the anthem, but doesn't hold her hand over her heart?
The people criticizing Kaepernick, they want everyone's patriotism to be uniform and identical. They think they're performing patriotism correctly, while others are disgracing themselves (and somehow a legion of wounded American servicemembers) by being patriots in *any* *other* *way*. That's bullshit.
I stand and take my hat off at baseball games because I'm pretty much always there with my dad, and I don't want him to feel like an asshole, which he would, if I were to sit out the national anthem. I already sit out 'Take Me Out To The Ballgame' during the 7th Inning Stretch because it's the stupidest, worst, most nerve-grinding series of idiotic noises that I can't stand, and I know my dad wishes I would participate in that one, so I can't bum him out twice in one day, especially during the Patriotism Test (tm).
So, I stand because I love my dad. I love America too, but not in the way where I want to sing goofy songs to it and outright worship the red, white, and blue cloth that's whipping in the wind. I love America in the way where I want to work to make it better, which, ironically, is exactly what Kaepernick is talking about. We love it enough to invest in it, but not enough to treat America like it achieved glorious perfection right around the time Ronald Reagan was crowned. It didn't. We are far, far from perfect.
I'm not alone in that group of people-who-only-stand-so-their-dad-doesn't-feel-like-an-asshole. It's a big group. Lots of people do lots of things just to avoid making their dads feel like assholes. I'm still going to stand for the national anthem, because the circumstances of my life are different than Colin Kaepernick's life, but I am glad as hell that he's decided to show love for his country the way he has and to start a conversation about why so many feel so strongly about our pre-athletic event patriotism test. What he did took a lot of guts.""