OK guys... I NEED your advice
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First, I wouldn't play your cards right away......Be a detective and find out concrete info, if you really want to know, before you confront her........Otherwise, you'll get some BS excuse, she'll try and cover everything up and then you're left in the dark with only your wife's word(nothing happened) and your belief(something happened) which will eat at you......play it cool and act like you didn't see it for the time being until you can find out more.......
Theres alot of questions I could ask you that could change the situation, How close you guys are? Do you guys talk about everything? Let me look for a few articles and I'll get back to you
Theres alot of questions I could ask you that could change the situation, How close you guys are? Do you guys talk about everything? Let me look for a few articles and I'll get back to you
You could hire a PI, it is done all the time and these guys know what to do. Easy wayy since she emails or types this stuff is install a keystroke logger on your desktop computer. It goes between the keyboard and the back so she wouldn't notice. You would probably get her passwords and read her e-mails.
A freind of mine from college thought the same thing but all he had was rumors. He took his now ex-wife to the beach for a weekend just the 2 of them. On the second (last day). He told her that he had to confess something to her. He said he found out from one of the guys friends that she cheated on him, so he decided to make it even and cheated on her, but it was eating him up inside and didnt see how she could live with it because he cant and hoped she would forgive him. She confessed everything. He taped it all. He then handed her a preprinted letter telling her that he just made it all up to see if she would tell the truth and he wanted a divorce.
I dont suggest that in your case but it worked for him.
I dont suggest that in your case but it worked for him.
NJSF IN YOUR TRAILOR COMMUNITY IS THERE ANY NIGERIANS.LOOK AT IT ON THE BRIGHT SIDE AT LEAST SHE ISNT SLEEPING WITH NIGERIANS YET.IF YOU KNEW YOUR WIFE WAS SLEEPING AROUND YEARS AGO WHY DIDNT YOU END IT BACK THEN WHEN YOUR CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENTS WOULD HAVE BEEN HALF PRICE NO YOU BEING THE DUMB BASTARD YOU ARE GO OUT AND HAVE 2 MORE KEEDS.JUST DUMP THE TRAMP AND GET READY TO LOSE A LOT OF MONEY.YOU MIGHT GET LUCKY MAYBE THIS GUY BRAD HAS A LOT OF MONEY AND MIGHT TAKE YOUR WIFE OFF YOUR HANDS AND MARRY HER THEN YOU WONT HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT THE SUPPORT IF HE ADOPTS THE KEEDS OTHERWISE YOU ARE F-CKED KID :s4: 0H MAN BRAD MUST BE LAUGHING HIS ARSE OFF HE IS BANGING YOUR WIFE AND HE DOESNT HAVE TO SUPPORT THE KIDS MAN LIFE IS GOOD FOR BRAD.
NJSF GIVE ME 5 GRAND I WILL HAVE JOHNNY KNOCKDOWN TALK TO THIS GUY BRAD AND BELIEVE ME BRAD WONT BE BOTHERING YOUR WIFE ANYMORE HE DEFINTLY WONT BE TAKING HER DANCING ANYTIME SOON.
JACK IS THIS A SPORTS FORUM OR DEAR ABBY LETS GET SERIOUS HERE HUH FELLAS.
NJSF GIVE ME 5 GRAND I WILL HAVE JOHNNY KNOCKDOWN TALK TO THIS GUY BRAD AND BELIEVE ME BRAD WONT BE BOTHERING YOUR WIFE ANYMORE HE DEFINTLY WONT BE TAKING HER DANCING ANYTIME SOON.
JACK IS THIS A SPORTS FORUM OR DEAR ABBY LETS GET SERIOUS HERE HUH FELLAS.
http://www.askmen.com/dating/dating_top_ten_60/65_dating_list.html ...........heres a top 10 signs she's cheating on you........obviously it doesnt mean that she is, but maybe it can paint a clearer picture for u
Take Brad out, get him drunk, right before he passes out, he'll be honest with ya about anything.
You could go to Radio Shack and buy one of these recorders that you can hook into an extra phone jack. Then go out of town and record all her phone conversations.
Sales guy I used to travel with came home from road trip to find candle wax on nightstand next to the bed. He thought it was strange she was burning candles in the bedroom so he bought one of these recorders and hooked it up in the attic.
He discovered she was having an affair with another woman. A woman they knew from their church. I am sorry that you have these suspicions yet -- based on the facts you present -- there certainly could be something to it. Good luck to you whatever happens.
Sales guy I used to travel with came home from road trip to find candle wax on nightstand next to the bed. He thought it was strange she was burning candles in the bedroom so he bought one of these recorders and hooked it up in the attic.
He discovered she was having an affair with another woman. A woman they knew from their church. I am sorry that you have these suspicions yet -- based on the facts you present -- there certainly could be something to it. Good luck to you whatever happens.
Glad I don't have any advice for you from personal experience.
Don't know what to tell you, but I hope it's not true.
Don't know what to tell you, but I hope it's not true.
i would share in your anxiety. i think if you can afford it, hire a pi to find out for you. i can feel your emotion. if there is a way to get a pi to find answers to your question, he wont put emotion into the equation.
a buddy of mine recently called me to see if he could move in with his son, says he found that while his wife was working late shift she was making calls on her cell phone to some guy. i was shocked. there marriage seemed strong. he was ready to sell the house and divorce her. she had to sleep in their daughters room. he found out that the guy she was talking to worked with her along with his girlfriend. my friends wife was helping them through there own crisis, she hid it from her husband because he wouldn't understand. so it turned out alright but she should have told him to begin with.
to me the first step is find out whats up without her knowing about it. and try not to think the worst but if possible prepare yourself for taking care of business.
gl and let us know whats up.
a buddy of mine recently called me to see if he could move in with his son, says he found that while his wife was working late shift she was making calls on her cell phone to some guy. i was shocked. there marriage seemed strong. he was ready to sell the house and divorce her. she had to sleep in their daughters room. he found out that the guy she was talking to worked with her along with his girlfriend. my friends wife was helping them through there own crisis, she hid it from her husband because he wouldn't understand. so it turned out alright but she should have told him to begin with.
to me the first step is find out whats up without her knowing about it. and try not to think the worst but if possible prepare yourself for taking care of business.
gl and let us know whats up.
