OK guys... I NEED your advice

[MadJack]

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Raising kids is a tough enough job without confusing the issue with alcohol problems, infidelity,fighting etc. I believe, if you still value your wife and your relationship, that it would be wise to confront her with your suspicions,assure her that you continue to value a meaningful relationship and open channels of communication, see your local priest, minister or a marriage counselor and begin the process of building back the trust that you once had and healing your marriage. Don't play games.......Be honest..forthright and be civil and 'in control" JMHO

bear

i really respect this opinion, and i think it 'can' work out like you say, however, most of the time it won't and you have to lookout for yourself first.

i've been there.

when your loved one, your partner in life, your spouse that you've shared everything with, you've given everything to and for, betrays that trust and starts sneaking around, cheating, stealing, plotting against you, sharing YOUR secrets with another RAT, AND RIPS YOUR HEART OUT AND STOMPS ON IT, you have to cover YOUR ass first.

cover your ass first and if she's worth it to you, try to reconcile later. secretly find out if it's true or not and then take the necessary action and be the FIRST to act too, or you might be the one who gets fuked in more ways than you can think.

 

[Mjolnir]

totaly agree w/jack. the worst thing would be not to cover yourself, then lose your ass.

 

[jigs]

My contribution is as follows-

Grow a set of balls and confront the situation- don't get on the Internet and look for advice and/or sympathy from a bunch of degenerates. These bleeding hearts will only make you feel worse.

S-Love

I feel sorry for your parents, who raised a waste of space.

 

[BADTODABONE]

Love is blind, face it( I had too) if the biatch is cheatin' and YOU ARE NOT, it's time to move on with your life. I heard all the lies, missing money stories and was finally told to 'get the fawk out'...of OUR house, ....I could go on .....lay off the :drinky: , get your head straight, don't try to contact the other guy get your chit together.

I knew what was going on, contacted a PI, he saved me $$$$....told me it would be better spent on legal fees.

Don't fawk up, don't give up, don't do anything stupid and............don't forget what your children are going through as well...Best of Luck to All Involved

 

[S-Love]

S-Love

I feel sorry for your parents, who raised a waste of space.

Jiggles-

My parents are doing great- thanks for asking!

 

[wareagle]

I think I just found out my wife cheated on me... and heres why... I lltry to make this as short as possible

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CLICK HERE

 

[Mjolnir]

check out
catchcheaters. com

 

[3 Seconds]

What is your wife's myspace page. I just need one look at her & I can tell if you she cheated or not.....

 

[neverteaseit]

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