djv, for the most part, the ones that leave, or left, are the ones who went 'pay'.
when they went 'pay', while gaining their popularity from this site, a FREE SHARING SITE, they left themselves wide open for criticism from friends they made during the time they shared their picks or information for FREE.
this site has always been, from the very beginning, a site for people to gather and share information in order to get an upper hand on the man and possibly make money gambling on sports.
they get pissed off at all the bashing (remember, they're under a microscope now that they went pay) from people that have had bad experiences from services and the people that had become happy with coat-tailing their plays.
then, on top of that, since they have had success on this forum, and even drove traffic to this forum, i guess they feel like this site owes them the opportunity to let them advertise their product for free, but i won't and can't and will never do that, so they also get pissed at me.
then, some people get pissed at me (the site) for not letting them advertise and some people get pissed at me (the site) for not banning their asses because this site IS NOT FOR SERVICES. i can't win no matter how i handle the situation. damned if i do and damned if i don't.
also, people read things wrong all the time. sometimes it's hard to get the meaning of your typed word through to people and things are read differently by different people. even though i didn't mention any names in this post of mine, there will be some, maybe a lot, that think i'm talking about them and i'm not. i'm speaking in general.
i've said it a thousand times; it's impossible to make everybody happy in a public forum especially with so many different agendas to deal with. i do the best i can to keep peace here but i'll never have the happy forum i once had when there were only 100 or so members. we're big and a lot of peole visit and i try to be as flexible and as fair to as many as possible.
we do the best we can but for every member that leaves, there are 5 ready to replace them. i hate to see people go too, but what am i to do?
where's Neemer anyway?