Just to give some of my political history for some context, I interned for a Republican state rep in 1996 and was a card-carrying Young Republican from 96-98. I voted for Bush in 2000, Badnarik (Libertarian) in 2004, and Obama in 2008 and 2012. Funnily enough, I don't think my political ideology has changed much. I've just seen a relatively centrist Republican party go further and further right. I didn't leave them - they left me.
I watched during the Bush presidency as the right consistently said "Hey, we were attacked and we're at war. Even if you don't agree with him or the war, you have to support our President." How quickly that went up in a cloud of dust in 2008. He hadn't even been inaugurated yet and the Tea Party movement was in full swing. It wasn't enough that they disagreed with his ideas, he had to be labeled an evil Socialist and compared to Hitler. I've heard on here and elsewhere (paraphrasing) "if you think this election was about misogyny, racism, and Islamophobia you haven't been paying attention and don't understand what really gave rise to this." Well similarly, if you don't understand why there are protests and the "not my president" movement, then you haven't been paying attention to the level of disrespect that the right has had for Obama the last 8 years. This is tit for tat. Is that the mature response? No, but that's where we are.
You don't like Hillary? Fine - there's a lot there to not like. But the right can't leave it at that. She has to be labeled "the most corrupt politician in history" and linked to ludicrous murder conspiracy theories worthy of tin foil hats. Is that sufficient reason to give a reality TV star the keys to the nuclear arsenal? A man with such little actual business sense that he left the casino business because he couldn't figure out how to make money at it? Not in my opinion.
So do not expect "healing". You will see the same obstructionism from Democrats that you saw from Republicans in Obama's first 2 years. Expect many a fillibuster. Again - tit for tat.
I do understand that, by and large, the American people don't like dynasties in politics. Going from Bush to Clinton to Bush to Obama and then back to Clinton again does not scream "change" to people who desperately need things to change. I just wish it was in service of a better candidate. Republicans needed another Ronald Reagan. Donald Trump is not Reagan. Maybe I'll be proven wrong.
But the bottom line is we still have the same broken system. Just as there were delusional people on the left in the streets of Chicago in 2008 saying "I don't need to worry about how I'm going to pay my rent anymore!" so there are now delusional people on the right saying "Trump's going to bring all the jobs back!" and it will be the same result. Disappointment - disenfranchisement - and eventually a wholesale housecleaning in Congress and Dems will get their shot again. Rinse and repeat.
"I pick up my guitar and play
Just like yesterday
Then I get on my knees and pray
We don't get fooled again"