I asked my lawyer about that & he said once the legal separation is signed, you are free to bang anyone you want w/o recourse.
That has been signed & notorized already.
I hate life.
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I asked my lawyer about that & he said once the legal separation is signed, you are free to bang anyone you want w/o recourse.
That has been signed & notorized already.
:toast: :00x30 :142hump:
banging 22 year olds while your jealous soon to be ex-wife is crying, priceless...
Welp,
Still with some mixed feelings about everything I met with my lawyer & began the process to file for divorce.
:sadwave: Katie
Still with some mixed feelings about everything I met with my lawyer & began the process to file for divorce.
:sadwave: Katie
Wow that girl is smokin!
Hang in there 3 seconds. You will get through it. Plenty of nice good lookin bitches out there. Take your pick.
hey, 3secs (sounds like "sex," which wouldn't hurt you in present state)...
Most of my friends 40+ are either divorved or have been previously (ahem...marriage #x now proceeding).
Seems to be the way the (cough-choke) "developed" world is engaging these days (wrong word).
No kids with the future ex and you are quite fortunate. I am currently helping a close friend out with some legal issues regarding the same...fucking ugly as sin, especially if there's any animosity.
Not sure of your age but if you're a woman-hunter then you should do better in the future. The re-marriages that I have witnessed seem to work out better than the first go-rounds. I'm not speaking from first-hand experience but hey...most shit is overrated, ain't it?
Pretty fucking useless contribution (from me, that is), but I saw a thread with the title "I hate life" and I must confess that I can relate, though likely for different reasons. I haven't read over all the responses (don't have 13 weeks free, presently), but you clearly have a lot of support, here. Likely the same from your friends and family, too.
It is not your fault, as you claim.
Marriages take two to work and they take two to fail.
Try to end it benignly, if you can.
Try to remain friends.
Apologize if you perceive you did something wrong, and tell her how much she meant to you and that you would like to remain friends, if possible.
I better stop before I begin quoting Nietzsche or Pink Floyd or something.
GL in the future.
It is better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all
Most of my friends 40+ are either divorved or have been previously (ahem...marriage #x now proceeding).
Seems to be the way the (cough-choke) "developed" world is engaging these days (wrong word).
No kids with the future ex and you are quite fortunate. I am currently helping a close friend out with some legal issues regarding the same...fucking ugly as sin, especially if there's any animosity.
Not sure of your age but if you're a woman-hunter then you should do better in the future. The re-marriages that I have witnessed seem to work out better than the first go-rounds. I'm not speaking from first-hand experience but hey...most shit is overrated, ain't it?
Pretty fucking useless contribution (from me, that is), but I saw a thread with the title "I hate life" and I must confess that I can relate, though likely for different reasons. I haven't read over all the responses (don't have 13 weeks free, presently), but you clearly have a lot of support, here. Likely the same from your friends and family, too.
It is not your fault, as you claim.
Marriages take two to work and they take two to fail.
Try to end it benignly, if you can.
Try to remain friends.
Apologize if you perceive you did something wrong, and tell her how much she meant to you and that you would like to remain friends, if possible.
I better stop before I begin quoting Nietzsche or Pink Floyd or something.
GL in the future.
It is better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all
Well last night was quite interesting.
Divorce is under way & we had to go to my attorney's office after she got off work for some techincal thing....she is not getting an attorney! :00hour
She is letting go on my terms & just letting me write the ticket so to speak & will not contest the divorce or terms at all.
So after that meeting we stopped off for a dinner since we have nothing to eat in the house currently....went well all very lite talk, no talk of the relationship or anyhing.....a simple good time.
We got home, drank some wine & got into a huge fight about the other dude. She feels 'strongly' for him, they are so alike, he understands her blah blah blah. I am well past being some sappy dude & was just like whatever...I dont give a fuck anymore just save all the BS. Then she went into how much she resented me & how she tried to make the marriage work for 6.5 years how she gave gave gave etc...
Long story short is I made the HUGE HUGE HUGE mistake of having sex with her last night & this morning.
I am getting out of her today though....I simply cant take it & dont want to be around her.
Divorce is under way & we had to go to my attorney's office after she got off work for some techincal thing....she is not getting an attorney! :00hour
She is letting go on my terms & just letting me write the ticket so to speak & will not contest the divorce or terms at all.
So after that meeting we stopped off for a dinner since we have nothing to eat in the house currently....went well all very lite talk, no talk of the relationship or anyhing.....a simple good time.
We got home, drank some wine & got into a huge fight about the other dude. She feels 'strongly' for him, they are so alike, he understands her blah blah blah. I am well past being some sappy dude & was just like whatever...I dont give a fuck anymore just save all the BS. Then she went into how much she resented me & how she tried to make the marriage work for 6.5 years how she gave gave gave etc...
Long story short is I made the HUGE HUGE HUGE mistake of having sex with her last night & this morning.
I am getting out of her today though....I simply cant take it & dont want to be around her.
Well last night was quite interesting.
Divorce is under way & we had to go to my attorney's office after she got off work for some techincal thing....she is not getting an attorney! :00hour
She is letting go on my terms & just letting me write the ticket so to speak & will not contest the divorce or terms at all.
So after that meeting we stopped off for a dinner since we have nothing to eat in the house currently....went well all very lite talk, no talk of the relationship or anyhing.....a simple good time.
We got home, drank some wine & got into a huge fight about the other dude. She feels 'strongly' for him, they are so alike, he understands her blah blah blah. I am well past being some sappy dude & was just like whatever...I dont give a fuck anymore just save all the BS. Then she went into how much she resented me & how she tried to make the marriage work for 6.5 years how she gave gave gave etc...
Long story short is I made the HUGE HUGE HUGE mistake of having sex with her last night & this morning.
I am getting out of her today though....I simply cant take it & dont want to be around her.
Who could have ever seen this coming:scared
Well last night was quite interesting.
Divorce is under way & we had to go to my attorney's office after she got off work for some techincal thing....she is not getting an attorney! :00hour
She is letting go on my terms & just letting me write the ticket so to speak & will not contest the divorce or terms at all.
So after that meeting we stopped off for a dinner since we have nothing to eat in the house currently....went well all very lite talk, no talk of the relationship or anyhing.....a simple good time.
We got home, drank some wine & got into a huge fight about the other dude. She feels 'strongly' for him, they are so alike, he understands her blah blah blah. I am well past being some sappy dude & was just like whatever...I dont give a fuck anymore just save all the BS. Then she went into how much she resented me & how she tried to make the marriage work for 6.5 years how she gave gave gave etc...
Long story short is I made the HUGE HUGE HUGE mistake of having sex with her last night & this morning.
I am getting out of her today though....I simply cant take it & dont want to be around her.
I give her one more facial for old time sake . . . and take a picture with your cell phone. . . just in case you need it later
Well last night was quite interesting.
Long story short is I made the HUGE HUGE HUGE mistake of having sex with her last night & this morning.
I am getting out of her today though....I simply cant take it & dont want to be around her.
simple typo????:shrug: --though truer than you could've even imagined to hope to relay
as opposed to getting out of here(there)
GL with everything--hope it turns out well for you
3secs...last word before (from here) before I bail.
having sex is never a mistake, certainly barring some tramp who may have something contractable, which your wife has likely avoided, whatever her excuse for variety may have been.
I hadn't even delved that deeply, into this thread, but, as mentioned, it is obviously not your fault.
Takes two to tango.
You may have had yours, as most men do (we ARE fucking pigs, after all, or at least hornier than shit 666 days a year barring medication), but if she's been "experimenting" then your alleged course of action seems promising; marriage is, or used to be, a committment to somebody that you can love and cherish your whole life, without the need to recourse into alternative 'course and whatever else some lost soul may be looking for. Arguments are arguments--a part of life including within the best friendships. Betrayal of trust is difficult to forgive, for pretty much anybody. That being said, I do hope that you can end it on good terms and it sounds like you may. Even sounds, from my limited comprehension of the matter, that you may salvage it yet. You have to decide what you want. Seems like you wanted her bodily fluids--whether under the influence or not--so obviously animosity has not engulfed you.
hmmm...
seem to rambling as before (or worse(as usual))...
Figure out what you(s) want and communicate.
Cooperate.
You got married for a reason and maybe enough remains to salvage.
If not, then you would both best be served by the cooperation hitherto mentioned.
Hendrix bless us everyone...I just got the phone call I've been waiting on and can therefore save you from more of my uninformed deliberations. I got 13.666 minutes before I gots to hit the road.
Talk it up.
I know of worse shit than I surmise--again from limited perusal--that has turned into something stronger in the future.
If not possible, then, well...I won't repeat myself.
P.S.
fuck lawyers
avoid the idiots if you can
(no offense to any lawyers who may be silly enough to read this...let's get eclectic, though, shall we?)
gotta run
GL 3 seconds
having sex is never a mistake, certainly barring some tramp who may have something contractable, which your wife has likely avoided, whatever her excuse for variety may have been.
I hadn't even delved that deeply, into this thread, but, as mentioned, it is obviously not your fault.
Takes two to tango.
You may have had yours, as most men do (we ARE fucking pigs, after all, or at least hornier than shit 666 days a year barring medication), but if she's been "experimenting" then your alleged course of action seems promising; marriage is, or used to be, a committment to somebody that you can love and cherish your whole life, without the need to recourse into alternative 'course and whatever else some lost soul may be looking for. Arguments are arguments--a part of life including within the best friendships. Betrayal of trust is difficult to forgive, for pretty much anybody. That being said, I do hope that you can end it on good terms and it sounds like you may. Even sounds, from my limited comprehension of the matter, that you may salvage it yet. You have to decide what you want. Seems like you wanted her bodily fluids--whether under the influence or not--so obviously animosity has not engulfed you.
hmmm...
seem to rambling as before (or worse(as usual))...
Figure out what you(s) want and communicate.
Cooperate.
You got married for a reason and maybe enough remains to salvage.
If not, then you would both best be served by the cooperation hitherto mentioned.
Hendrix bless us everyone...I just got the phone call I've been waiting on and can therefore save you from more of my uninformed deliberations. I got 13.666 minutes before I gots to hit the road.
Talk it up.
I know of worse shit than I surmise--again from limited perusal--that has turned into something stronger in the future.
If not possible, then, well...I won't repeat myself.
P.S.
fuck lawyers
avoid the idiots if you can
(no offense to any lawyers who may be silly enough to read this...let's get eclectic, though, shall we?)
gotta run
GL 3 seconds
